THE HISTORY OF MEL
In the beginning of the year 2000, after the Y2K scare, Weinger JCC, Northbrook, provided a computer training program for older people, Senior Net. The volunteer instructors were drawn from the area, and were, generally, retired men. In April of that year, Sue Klein, approached the instructors with the idea of forming a men’s activity group that would be different than those typically associated with a temple’s Sunday morning men’s groups – you know, a bagel, a shmear and fall asleep. Subsequently on May 5, a focus group was conducted among those men who were interested; it was attended by 10 to discuss the idea. This was our “conception date.”
Below are some notes from the minutes of that meeting, sent to all those interested in continuing: The group decided on the name “MUD” – Men with Unfulfilled Desires. The focus would be on doing things we couldn’t do because we were too busy working.
MUD Meeting Minutes, May 5, 00
Hi, I understand that you have an interest in the group. We are working to expand the group and determine its activities. Being in the formative stage there is work to be done. Here are the minutes from our last meeting. Please feel free to give me a call if there are any questions, 773-395-2455. Bill Gurolnick
Those attending reviewed their work experience and post work activities. Each member listed areas of interest that the group should pursue. These could be classified as community work and leisure/fun.
Since there was a wide range of member business experience, it was thought that this would be of value to the community. Among community work ideas are:
- Support of black/minority new businesses, help and development.
- In schools, tutoring, career counseling, assistance with handicapped children.
The leisure/fun ideas were:
- Visiting museums and sports and outdoor activities
- Interest group discussions, i.e., government and politics (domestic and Israel)
- These could take place in the time between the monthly meeting, including all who may have interest with the possible inclusion of spouses in particular outings.
There also seemed to be an interest that the group could be a forum for more open men’s discussions.
The group was unanimous in the view that there needs to be a larger membership. Everyone will work to bring in additional people. The meeting time of 10:00-11:30 AM seemed acceptable to all.
For continuity, there will be two co-chairs for each meeting, rotating from meeting to meeting. Everyone should pick a date they can fulfill this.
Bill Gurolnick
